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Making the Tough Call

June 29, 2009 by Giulietta Nardone

Perhaps this has happened to you. There’s someone you want to call but you feel nervous about it because you either have something to tell this person you think s/he may not want to hear or you’re harboring some negative feelings.

The best solution is to take out a piece of paper and write down 5-10 things you love about this person. Before you call reread the list until you feel nothing but love or warm feelings toward the person you need to call.

This will make all the difference in your own attitude when you call. It will make it easier for you to ask questions so you understand where this person is coming from. Let’s face it everyone is coming from somewhere and it helps if you know where that is. Then you can tell them where you’re coming from.

Makes it easier to find a footpath you can both walk along together.

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